What is the difference between dating and already married? I asked the colleague before
I got married. A gentleman, about forty years old and had been married for
fifteen years.
“Yes, definitely different! It's exciting getting married anyway, you
will feel it too. "He replied.
Now I've been married for five years. There are many things changed after marriage.
At least four fundamental things that changed after marriage. Among other
things are:
- Matters of eating and sleeping
At the beginning of the wedding, a big change that occurred is a matter
of eating and sleeping. Breakfast usually served by a housemaid or mama, but
after marriage, I realized I had an obligation to serve the husband's breakfast
before leaving for work and always provide food at home.
For me this is fun because previously I’m the one who cannot cook
become more diligent to try a new recipe for a husband. Another story about the
bed, brace yourself for "sharing a bed" with her husband. Friend of
mine was shocked when at first night sleeping with her husband because she
usually sleeps alone, suddenly had to wake up startled to hear her husband's
snoring.
- Matters of money
Financial affairs in every household must have a different set, but certainly
after marriage, we have shared our money. Luckily for the women since most
households principle is "your money is my money, my money is your
money". If at the time of courtship, I hesitate to ask buy a bag or shoes,
after marriage I can be more relaxed ask for something desirable to the
husband.
- No mask
Hesitate, do not want to look ugly and behave while courting will
disappear after marriage. Staying in the same house with one partner makes me
be myself what it is. I wake up with a random mess of hair and get droll.
Sharing one bathroom with different activity where are the one taking a shower
and other toilet ended up in the morning. Wearing a favorite clothes or even
pass gas in front of the couple. All of that became commonplace, and no longer
do feel bad.
- Lifetime partner
When married couples would be our idea of change, the couple turned
into our life partner. I see him still like my boyfriend I used to know, but I
also consider it like my father, my brother, and the father of my son, my co-workers
and others. I became more mature after marriage. Together with him, I think of
things that are much more serious as to have the house, child support and
achieve the dreams together.
Well, happy viewers that’s the story of mine about things changed after marriage, all those changes I live with
joy because I have chosen a lifetime partner of my own.
Another story may find in Tiffany Infinity Ring.
Another story may find in Tiffany Infinity Ring.
