In marriage live, there must be up and down.
Not just a matter of quarrel, but sometimes it was used in relationship
Seriously, in my neighborhood, there are
couples experiencing this feeling too. What about me? Yes, it is definitely
there, it is marriage life….
External factors
This factor could be due to the busyness of
each party. It could be also because one of the husband or wife has a new
dynamic world. Make new friends, join in a particular community, and so on.
Many people believe the external factors cause of boredom in marriage is always
due to the presence of a third person. In my opinion, not always but sometimes
there is a possibility, especially in the Internet era, as now not just a
physical affair, cheating the text in the era of social media is very likely to
happen, you know.
Internal factors
One of the internal factors could be due to
either husband and wife doesn’t feel appreciated each other. For example, a wife who cooks and run the
household at the same time also working, but never once complimented by her
husband. Or a husband, got a promotion
at work that is not only gets higher salaries, but workload too, instead
appreciating the increase the family income, but only complained of a husband
who is less in time with family.
Other internal factors, I think it is in small
things are the appearance of each at home. As a wife sometimes busy grooming if
want out of the house, while in front of husband less of grooming.
So, how to overcome this boredom? Read carefully marriage tips below.
Change the things that have become a habit
Change the layout of the house, the color of
the walls of the house, or simply shift the bed to a different location it can
affect the mood, you know! Do not believe? Please try :)
We can also change the daily habits. For
example, occasionally get outdoor breakfast both spouses, back from the office
on a date with husband, and so on.
Do something together
This is my favorite marriage tips to do. Certainly many things can be done together, start from sports, cooking, cleaning the house and so on.
Realize that there are certain phases in marriage
All couples, surely want as newlyweds continue as long as the age of marriage. But yes from us want to like it, but it turns out the husband wants a different relationship.
The point is each party must be aware of and
understand the stages in marriage and how partner's daily life.
Support couples to have new activities
Has a new activity can be a dilemma because
partner can engrossed with his world. On the other hand, if he is enjoying his
new world, he may feel life more colorful and dynamic. To note is we do not
alike dissolve in the new world.
Actually, make this new world as a bridge of
communication with a partner. If it was just talking about children, funding
for education, home, and so on, then it could widen the conversation about
hobbies like biking, hiking, and others.
