Do you start seriously looking for a mate? Or you already have a partner and decided to
bring the relationship towards marriage?
Congratulations then! As gifts to you and for
you are still looking for, do not give up keep the spirit. I will describe not
only the beauty of the wedding, but also a certain bitter phase you will face
no matter how long you've known your partner.
Briefly, this is how you and your partner feel
the post-wedding:
1. Honeymoon phase
In the new phase of this marriage, you're happy
to have a spouse who legally could you meet a 24 hours non-stop. Like a
teenager have a new dating where the world seemed belong
- Plus point: Always excited! You like to enjoy every second of time with your partner.
- Minus point: Somewhat forget those closest because of the thrill when enjoying time together.
2. Struggle phase
Phase of happiness is starting over, which is
indicated when you have children, plan to move to a larger house, falter in
careers, children's education expenses, and other thrilling round decision that
inevitably have to be looking for a way out. During this time marriage periods
are tested.
This phase might hardly pass without dissent.
In this phase also, the original nature of partner will be revealed. Many
couples realized that they do not match and decided to separate. But still, in
this phase you may learn a lot about living together with partners.
- Plus point: Meets expectations in the household gradually; have a child and accompany him to grow up, have a home or own personal vehicle, and get a suitable job. You will be thankful one day!
- Minus point: There is no end results are beautiful without process. This phase requires a struggle and great patience because this is where you are tested physically and mentally tested to meet the challenges of marriage. Therefore, draw up strategies as early as possible so that this phase can be passed very well.
3. Second honeymoon phase
After many challenges that you have been
through, you and your partner will be more settled with a lot of things. You
become more sophisticated in dealing with problems. In addition, a growing age
makes you have to let go of
- Plus point: You can breathe more easily, no longer thought about paying all sorts of costs, there is no requirement to educate children in the right way even now it is time your son are watching you. You just enjoy the beauty of the world.
- Minus point: Sometimes miss this kind of stress, especially you do not busy with work or child activities that a few tens of years you always encounter everyday. But of course now your focus you can bestow on the faithful partner accompany you until today.
However, a serious relationship takes a maximum
effort from both sides. But I believe, with the provision has given so you are
not surprised anymore when it comes to face it. You can also steal started by
asking how your partner’s thinking patterns, for example about how to raise a
child. Good luck!
