Feeling sexy for a woman is a must, but the fact there are tons of women did not realize their potential, to describe this matter, let us read this story. A woman aged approximately 30 years, consulted
about her relationship with her husband. She suspected her husband liked female
friend in his office. A classic problem that is timeless, the suspicion arises
when the wife finds out that her husband seems doesn’t like to return to
hometown. They live a different city. One time she found the intimate SMS to
her husband.
My standard question is, "How is sexual
relationship with husband, ma’am?" A common reaction is flushed face, eyes
widened as to say, "Ugh... Psychologist really vulgar!” So if I do not ask
it, then I have to ask what?
Women on average cannot enjoy an intimate relationship with her husband, despite being married a dozen years because they do not know how to be a sexy woman. For them,
it's just sexual intercourse obligations. This paradigm is less precise. The
relationship of husband and wife were not just 'should be so', but regard it as
recreation, something fun.
If women are not able to make fun activities
together with the husband, then in fact she had hurt herself. Why? Because the
woman already has everything she needs! Curious? Follow these tips:
Understand your body & use lingerie to strengthen
Quite a lot of women who are not feeling sexy, they just take care when bathing, spa, or massage. Understanding not only
organs of the body, but the sensation that arises with respect to these body
parts.
How to be a sexy woman is not something hard to get, just feel which body part you like and which
body part you want to 'hide' from the husband when alone together. Then,
reinforce the impression of pulling off parts of the body using different
underwear. Currently, lingerie model has been very much of the variations. Use
it.
Ask your husband to treat you as the way you
want. In the beginning, just ask him to do a little. The important thing is to
show him if you enjoy it. If you feel ashamed to ask verbally, then use
non-verbal language. Hold the husband's hand and then navigate to the part of
your body and guided him to do as you wish.
Fix the paradigm
The assumption that women cannot seem eager to
get started, it’s something misleading.
My client says that she was embarrassed start first. Another client said
she felt weird and not herself when using lingerie. Then, I ask how her
husband's reaction saw her in a different style. She replied, "Oh, my
husband was thrilled. In fact, I was told to buy other models again
". Then I told her that sexy dress
with her husband when it is not synonymous with 'bad women'. No need to be
embarrassed when with her husband.
Positive and sensual expression
Free yourself of expression to how to be a sexy woman, both verbal and
non-verbal. Positive words and praise for 'greatness' husband was necessary, do
not be stingy praise. Frankly express what you love from the husband, whether
it's part of his body or the way he treated you. Feeling sexy and sensual word was needed to whisper in the husband’s ears.
Recreation need variations
Definitely bored if went recreation only to the
same place continuously for nearly 20 years. Look for different places.
The next variation
