Did you know that keeping a loving relationship could be very difficult? Defend something that could be even more complicated
than when we got it. As in a relationship, after we managed to get her heart,
our duty is not finished. We still have to maintain the feeling our love to our
partner. And, we also need to ensure that our partner also tried to maintain the relationship.
Maybe this time you are in a state undergoing
feels empty relationship. Or you're fighting for your relationship to be
lasting and harmonious. Well, for that, let's identify the five causes of losing the sense of a loving relationship. So, we can be more careful and self
introspective to maintain a relationship. Read another topic on Jareds engagement rings.
Boredom
Boredom could be the cause of the fading love in a relationship. When you and your partner do the same thing
continuously, without any attempt to do something new, then boredom will
appear. Boredom will lead to a reduction in the feeling of love you both if
left unchecked.
So, try to establish better communication
again. Try setting the time to do something new for the first time. Try to
select activities that can be done by you and your spouse together. Make your
day even more special with a new excitement.
Unfettered feelings
Every person in a relationship needs his own
space. To be able to still feel happy, we also need our own freedom. For
example, we still need to pursue our own hobbies and interests. We also cannot
spend every second with just a couple, can we?
Well, trying to create a sense of longing
between you and your partner. You and your partner can try to focus on doing
own jobs in a certain time period. Only after that set a specific time to meet.
The encounter certainly will feel more special and privileged.
Try to open minds
You and your partner both have something to
express. But instead of trying to open up, you and your partner feeling even
just bury it. If left too long, this will be a time bomb. It could be that your
romantic relationship will lead to separation because there is no longer a
sense of fading love as a result of mutual self-closing.
Try to be honest to express feelings. You and
your partner can learn to understand each other to open up. It might seem
difficult at first, but it is important to try. That's all for the sake of
harmony in your relationships and your own happiness.
Excessive criticism
Giving advice and constructive feedback on the
partner is necessary. Helping couples to become better people by giving
criticism is also legitimate, as long as not excessive. If you and your partner
constantly criticize and excessive focus on existing negative things, then sense
of love that is already built can be eroded or fading love situation.
Everyone can make mistakes; each individual has
own advantages and weaknesses. So there it is necessary to always keep the
personal ego. If we criticize our partner, then we also are willing to be
criticized. But of course the delivery criticism should also be noted, do not
use words that are too hurt
Unprepared for the change
Establishing a loving relationship, there would be
changes. For example, when already married, priorities will change our lives.
We also cannot arbitrarily do everything by ourselves. Various changes and
adaptation process that takes place needs to be addressed wisely. Otherwise,
the longer the feeling of love will increasingly fade.
